But the Fighter Still Remains – Parshat Shemot 5781

Parshat Shemot is just the first in a long line of narratives about the Israelites (later the Jewish people) in which we will be met with fire, yet not consumed. The call of God from the bush is the reminder to us all that the earth we stand on is holy because we are holy, and the fire of others cannot consume us.

“Benefit of the Doubt” is a Jewish Value – Parshat Vayechi 5781

One act of meanness or emotional outburst doesn't have to define us. Vayechi, our Torah portion this week, means “and he lived,” and it's actually in Jacob's death that we're reminded that life is complex and filled with ups and downs. We make poor choices, and we have bad days, but we as humans are the total of all our actions.

Old Fights – Parshat Vayigash 5781

While we’re all physically apart from each other, it’s easy to forget that we all have to live with each other in every sense of space. Portlanders share one city. Oregonians share one state. Humankind shares just one planet. Vayigash means “and he drew near,” and the parshah reminds us to draw near to each other and meet each other in the here and now.

Resources in Reserve – Parshat Miketz 5781

Parshat Miketz, which is read around Hanukkah, a time of year when we have more darkness than light, is about reserving for the future. Besides emergency supplies, we should savor and reserve the light of the Hanukkah candles in our memories. Store your moments of light, of gratitude, because you never know when you’ll need to tap into them.

Doing Enough – Parshat Vayeshev 5781

Could I have done more? It’s one of those questions you ask yourself in moments of tragedy. It’s difficult to know which piece of advice, which kind word, which heroic gesture will make a difference, or if any of them will. But in reality each little contribution, no matter how big or small, can make a difference. 

Grudge Match – Parshat Vayishlach 5781

What I find most remarkable about Jacob and Esau's moment of reconciliation is that apparently both Jacob and Esau have decided to let bygones be bygones. They don’t bring up their rocky past or ask for any sort of closure. They are simply able to embrace one another as siblings, and let it go.

Fully Dressed – Parshat Vayetzei 5781

Has anyone reminded you to make sure you’re wearing clean underwear? If you’re like me, you’ve had it drilled into you that no matter what, when you leave the house, always make sure you’re covered for any eventuality. If there’s an accident or an emergency, you want to be not only prepared, but presentable.